"A kindness is never lost" is a widely known phrase in Japan too.
I have not thought about this phrase in dept.
I thought I must put kindness for others before my happiness.
So I always had expectation of gratitude from others who were treated with kidness by me, and I was angry when they disappointed me.
But I got it!
The expectation is self-centered view.
Kindness for others must be for myself.
I must treat with kidness without requiring anything in return.
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kfmfe04
Jun 03rd 2009 13:43
よく書きました!
maririn
Jun 03rd 2009 14:09
Hi kfmfe04 !
Thank you for your correction.