Something That Marriage Changed Me

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Aug 6, 2017 21:58
My husband and I used to fight over a little thing.

It was about where to put away dishes.
Kitchen is the place where I spend most of my time, so I like to keep my kitchen appliances and dishes in the place that is easy to cook.

For example, I put the containers of sugur and salt by the oven so that I can reach out to them easily when I need them.

However, my husband used to put away those appliances and dishes in the completely different places, and I always had to take some time to find them when I wanted to use them.

I told him many times to ask me where to put away when he wasn't sure of it. Although, he always forgot to ask...

I don't know how mamy times we fought over this issue. lol

But as we spent our time together, we got to learn more about each other.

Now, he knows I like to keep things in order, so he tries to follow my rules as much as he can. I also understand that he doesn't actually care about orders, so even when I
find that he put things to where I don't want them to be, I wouldn't be as mad as I used to be! lol

Actually, I almost forgot that we used to fight over such a small thing up until today when I found some dishes were in the place that wasn't my order.

I no longer feel anything about this misplaced dishes, and I put away those dishes to where I always put them without telling my husband.

We haven't talked about this issue for a long time, so maybe I'll ask him how he feels about this! lol


私は夫と小さなことで喧嘩してました。

それは、お皿をどこに片付けるかということです。キッチンで過ごす時間はとても多いので、キッチン用品やお皿は料理がしやすいように仕舞っています。

例えば、砂糖と塩はコンロの近くに置いています。使いたい時にすぐに使えるからです。

でも、夫はキッチン用品やお皿を全然違う場所に仕舞っていたのです。なので、使いたい時に探すのが大変でした。

何回も「仕舞う場所がわからなかったら、聞いて」と言ったのですが、いつも書き忘れていました。。。


何回このことで喧嘩したかわかりません。笑

けど、一緒の時間を沢山過ごして、お互いのことをもっとわかってきました。

今は、彼は私が整理整頓が好きなことを知っているので、出来るだけ従ってくれます。私も、彼があまり順序とか気にしないのをわかっているので、あまり置いて欲しくない場所に物を置いていても、昔みたいに怒らなくなりました。

実のところ、今日お皿が私がいつも置く場所と違う場所に置いてあるのを見つけるまで、こんな小さなことで喧嘩したことを忘れていました。

もうお皿が違う場所に置いてあっても何も感じないし、夫に何も言わずに片付けます。

しばらくこの事について話してないので、今度どう思ってるか聞いてみようかな。笑