It is hard for me to make a choice.
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Because of some institution issues, my applications of Nanyang Technology Universisy and National University of Singapore has been rejeted. I know that is UNJUST, but what can I do to change it? NOTHING! I have to face the actuality, but I'm not reconciled to give up all i have in Singapore, my momeries, my friends, my habits, and my relationship. i am tring not think about it anymore, it is really suffering for me to think about it every time. Should I face to the destiny, and choose another way which is choosen by god? What can i do? What else can I do?!!!
因为一些政策问题，南洋理工大学和新加坡国立大学都拒绝了我的申请。我知道这整件事都是非常不公平的，但是我能做什么去改变它？我不得不去面对现实，但我又不甘放弃我在新加坡的一切，我的回忆，朋友，习惯，还有我的感情。我很努力的不再去想这件事，对我来说那是种煎熬。难道我要对命运低头吗？难道我要走上老天爷为我选的那条路吗？我能做什么？我还能做什么？！
Secondly, how good are your results? Are you applying via the JC or poly route?
Thirdly, it's not the end of the world. Either you appeal or you just go elsewhere to further your uni studies. Not getting into NTU/NUS is not the end of the world.
I do know the feelings somewhat but I am the other party and not the one going overseas though. I dated a girl recently who liked me and told me before she went for her Phd studies abroad that she can't get into a relationship with me because a long distance relationship would never work out and it would be unfair for me. If that is what she wants, then I have nothing to say but to give up reluctantly. See? I am still alive and kicking till today.
Either you juggle with both or just solely focus on your studies because honestly, boys can wait. Know your priorities in life and what you intend to achieve now. I guess that's the only advice I can give you.
Either you be bitter and feel negative about it and make it affect you or just bite the bullet and carry on with life. Simple as that. It's up to you to make the choice.