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A few days ago, I found my eldest son, age of ten, was sobbing in his room alone when I came home from work. So I asked him what reason he was sobbing for. Then he snapped his face toward me and said that his mom scolded him and said that he mustn't hang around with them after school anymore, even on the way home. He buried his face into his hands and again went sobbing. I got out of his room and went to the living room where my wife was to ask what exactly happened. According to her, she has seen he was badly fooled(kicked) by brats whom she regarded as his friends and then, seemed to her that he was smiling as if he was enjoying it, so she thought it's no good for him to let him play with them. But I said "Even so, you shouldn't say that to him because he should realize by himself that he may get bullied, or maybe he already does. We ought not to intervene them unless he get injury. This is men's affair not Ladies' ".
There is always discrepancy between every mother and father which never likely be fixed and it's kind of hard to deal with, especially when you came home from work deadly exhausted. Right?
There is always discrepancy between every mother and father which never likely be fixed and it's kind of hard to deal with, especially when you came home from work deadly exhausted. Right?
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A few days ago, I found my eldest son, age of ten, was sobbing in his room alone when I came home from work.
So I asked him what reason why he was sobbing for.
Then he snapped his face toward glared at me and said that his mom scolded him and said that he mustn't hang around with them after school anymore, even on the way home.
He buried his face into his hands and again went started sobbing again.
According to her, she has seen he was badly fooled (kicked) by brats whom she regarded as his friends and then, it seemed to her that he was smiling as if he was enjoying it, so she thought it's no good for him to let him play with them.
We ought not to intervene them unless he gets an injury.
This is man's business.
There is always a discrepancy between every mother and father which is never likely to be fixed, and it's kind of hard to deal with, especially when you came home from work deadly exhausted.
every situation is different, but in my experience, being bullied
does not make you a man. in my case it made me into
a bully.
I also think he should take care of the problem himself.
Parents shouldn't butt into their children's affairs.
Like, if it's causing them mental problems and gives them suicidal thoughts.
Anyway, thank you.
So I asked him what reason he was sobbing for.
Then he snapped his head round to face me and said that his mom had scolded him and told him he mustn't hang around with some guys after school anymore, even on the way home.
He buried his face into his hands and went on sobbing again.
According to her, she saw he was badly treated, actually kicked, by brats whom she regarded as his friends, and then it seemed to her that he was smiling as if he was enjoying it, so she thought it's not good for him to let him play with them.
We ought not to intervene them unless he gets injured.
This is something that should be left to men, not women."
There is always a difference in views between every mother and father, which is never likely to be resolved, and it's kind of hard to deal with, especially when you've just come home from work dead exhausted.
I imagine it's a difficult thing to get right: wondering whether he needs to be protected and wanting him to grow as a man. It's possible your wife is being overly sensitive, but at least the issue is out in the open, which should make it easier to discuss with him if he needs advice.
Thank you great teacher!