Translation of one of the useful tips for not worrying.

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Mar 8, 2018 08:45
Translation of one of the useful tips for not worrying.

Yestweday I waited for seconds before I respnd when I feel anniyed yesterday. So I have done an action according to this kind of tips. I will translate a related tip that was e-mailed this morning.

 人間関係を築くための
 最も貴重なスキルとは

One of the most important skills to build a good relationships with neighbors is

 おそらく
 “ 話す前に考える脳力 ” でしょう。

might be a prudent attitude rhat you stop speaking out immediately when you feel something to them.

 怒りにまかせて
 軽率な言葉を口にした後で


 冷静さを取り戻してから
 自分の行動を悔やむ傾向が
 あなたにあるのなら

If you often feel regret soon after you say something to someone with any anger and you calm down to know it.

 “話す前に10数えなさい”
 といわれていた子供の頃の教えが

 まだ大い役立つはずです。

You sould help yourself if you remember a dicsiplin that you wait 10 seconds when you speak.

 少し間をとって考えれば

 自分がこれから
 言おうとしていることについて
 考え直すことができます。

if you wait for a moment and think of an annoying attitude from someone you ciuld change your mind and change words for them.


 例えば、
 強く言わなければいけない事が
 ある場合でも

 あえて
 柔らかい言い方をしてみるのは
 グッド・アイデアかもしれません。

For example, even when you need to tell someone something it might help you that you have gentle words for them.

 後で自分がきつい言い方で
 返されるのはイヤですからね。

That's because they would not make you feel annoying.