The Courage of being dislike?

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Dec 24, 2018 18:52
The Courage of being dislike? (2)
It was a bit annoying but I tried to not let the negative emotion stay too long.
However, in the afternoon, my colleague came to my room and pointed out that I should review myself and defend for the female guard.
I didn’t know why it pissed me off for not telling me directly but trying to influencing me through others.
In the end, I told my colleague and the female guard face to face by saying that they can tell me directly if they have any complaints. I used a calm and firm way to tell them what I want to say. They seemed being shocked. Probably, they didn’t think someone would discuss it openly.
After this boring event, I guess I will be dislike further. Our relationship may become worse. But I felt a bit relief after saying that.
被討厭的勇氣? (續)
雖然覺得有點煩,但我不想要讓負面情緒停留太久。結果到了下午,同事又來講我做得不好,為那個女警衛護航。我不知道為什麼覺得很不高興,因為她不直接跟我說,又一直透過別人來講我。
所以我面對面跟我同事還有警衛說,她們有任何抱怨直接跟我說就好。我用冷靜和堅定的語氣跟他們說,但他們看起來有點驚嚇,大概是沒想到有人會直接公開的講。
經過這次無聊的事件,我猜我會被更加討厭,然後我們的關係也會更糟糕。
但有說出來卻覺得鬆一口氣。