Chatting

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Jul 11, 2016 21:17
Chatting
Chatting is a good way to express one’s feelings and thoughts. Also, it is a good way to listen to others’s worlds. That is the reason why I like chatting. However, I do not think I am very good at it.
When there is no suitable topics or conversations cannot go on smoothly, I incline to feel awkward and nervous. Probably, I am little afraid of awkward silence. At that kind of moment, I am desperate to ask questions in order to find proper topics.
But this is not always an ideal method because too many questions may cause misunderstandings. People may feel themselves are challenged or their privacies are invaded.
How do I improve my chatting skills?
聊天
聊天可以表達自己的情感和想法,也可以透過傾聽理解別人的世界。
所以我蠻喜歡聊天的。
不過我覺得自己並不擅長聊天,
當沒有話題或是對話無法很順利進行的時候,
我會覺得有點尷尬緊張,
大概是因為我有點害怕冷場吧!
因此會想要找出彼此合適的話題而試著多問問題。
但是問太多問題也會被誤會,
覺得在質疑別人或是侵犯到別人隱私。
到底該怎麼聊天比較好呢?