Don't Cry Over Spilled Milk

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Nov 6, 2016 12:40
An old man walked on the road carrying some bowls. Suddenly a bowl dropped on the floor and smashed into pieces. The old man walked on without looking back. A passer-by felt very surprised and asked the old man, "Why didn't you look back when your bowl broke on the floor." The old man said, "It had been already broken even if I looked back."
Since my son was diagnosed as HFA, I always asked myself why it happened, but failed to find it's reason. I felt confused and sad. But my father said,"It is not important why it happened, How to solve it is the most important. So stop asking why, please ask how."
一个老人手抱着碗走在路上,忽然一个碗摔在地上,碎了!老人头也不回的接着往前走。一个路人很惊讶,问老人:"你的碗摔碎了你怎么不回头看看!"老人回答:"碎了就是碎了,回头看还是碎的。"
自从儿子被诊断为高功能自闭症,我总问自己为什么会这样,却找不到原因!我觉得迷茫也忧伤!我爸爸说,为什么会这样一点都不重要,现在重要的是我们怎么样来解决!所以,停止问为什么,问怎么样解决。